Silent Retreat

THE ART OF DOING NOTHING

DATES

THE INVITATION

Meditation retreat where nothing happens

The right time to pause is always somewhere ahead of you. When the project is finished, when the kids are older, when things get slightly less busy than they are this week. The conditions feel like the thing standing between you and rest, so you wait for them to improve, and they don’t, and you wait anyway. The part nobody mentions is that the waiting is the avoidance. To stop is to go quiet, and to go quiet is to be left alone with yourself, which is the one appointment all the busyness has been quietly arranging for you to miss.

Silence does not make the noise smaller. It makes you large enough to hold it.

Once the effort quiets, what’s left is awareness and peace that were present all along. You have not been away from it. You have simply been too busy looking for it elsewhere.

AT A GLANCE

DURATION

4, 6 or 7 days

GROUP SIZE

Max 8 guests

LOCATION

Cederberg

FOOD

Plant-based

No Coffee · No alcohol

This is for you if

Guest sitting on Cederberg boulders with dogs during silent retreat at Bliss and Stars

THE FORMATS

Same rhythm. Different depth.

The silence runs through the whole day, broken only by your daily check-in with Daria. Outside that, you do not speak. What changes between the formats is not the silence. It is how long you stay inside it.
The silence is more than not speaking. No reading, no music, no devices, nothing brought in to fill the gaps. Just you, the practice, and a journal if you want one.

meditation space in Cederberg, Western Cape

compact · 4 days

The short pause

For people who cannot take a week off, or are not yet sure they want to. Long enough to get through the difficult part and arrive somewhere quieter. Short enough to fit between a Thursday and a Sunday.
meditation in nature at bliss and stars in cederberg

longer passage · 6 or 7 days

The deeper dive

It is time to meet discomfort and stop negotiating with your thoughts. Time to notice what you’ve been avoiding. All formats follow the same rhythm. What shifts is how long you stay in the silence.

THE APPROACH

What we do, if we had to name it

Sit still. Meditate. Stargaze. Journal. Let silence guide you.

1

Silence

Every contemplative tradition begins by going quiet. Silence affords us the ability to see clearly amid noise and haste. It is a basic building block of happiness. It lets a deeper identity come to life and find its voice in us. Silence is not punishment, it is a form of love for the emerging inner person.

2

Embodiment

The body has been keeping score of everything the mind filed under ‘deal with it later’. You feel it in the held breath, the braced jaw, the tense shoulders. It asks you to feel where it lives, and to stay there long enough, so something can complete. Most people do not realise how much they have been carrying until they put it down.

3

Nature

Twenty minutes in natural surroundings begins to lower cortisol. Forty minutes measurably reduces the brain activity responsible for rumination. In the Cederberg, the nights are dark enough that within a few days your circadian rhythm begins returning to its natural setting. Your body does not need to be convinced.

WHAT A DAY LOOKS LIKE

Enough structure to feel held. Enough space to breathe.

We could give you the timetable. The wake-up, the sitting hours, the gap after brunch. But the need to know the shape of the day before you arrive is the very thing you came to put down. The rhythm changes with the season.

MORNING

MIDDAY

AFTERNOON

EVENING

Daria Rasmussen, somatic experiencing practitioner and founder of Bliss and Stars retreat

YOUR GUIDE

Daria Rasmussen

SOMATIC EXPERIENCING PRACTITIONER · MINDFULNESS TEACHER · FOUNDER

“My first 48-hour silent retreat cracked everything open. It didn’t fix me. It unmasked me. Silence taught me how to stay. How to stop trying. And how to trust what’s already here.”

She left a career that looked correct from the outside and felt increasingly wrong from the inside. Trained in Somatic Experiencing, certified mindfulness teacher under Martin Aylward, breathwork trained with Dan Brulé.

 

Daria does not help you get on top of your life. She sits with you while you discover you were never as far behind as you thought.

WHAT GUESTS SAY

WHAT DOES IT COST

Accommodation options

All prices include accommodation, all meals, all practices, and guided stargazing. No hidden charges. Never more than eight guests, often fewer.

tented chalet interior at bliss and stars

CANVAS AND TIMBER

Tented Chalets

Built from canvas and timber, which means the valley comes through the walls. Wind, water, first light. The simplest of the three, and the closest you can sleep to the land.

4 DAYS

6 DAYS

7 DAYS

Solo

R19,500

R22,500

R28,500

Double

R29,400

R32,000

R39,500

Includes: Accommodation, all meals, practices and activities
view of chalets at bliss and stars, cederberg

wood and glass

Chalets

Built from wood and glass, set between the rocks. Floor-to-ceiling windows put the valley in the room with you. The one most people picture when they imagine the place.

4 DAYS

6 DAYS

7 DAYS

Solo

R26,100

R27,500

R34,900

Double

R35,400

R39,000

R48,500

Includes: Accommodation, all meals, practices and activities
Aerial view of Weaver's Nest villa built from Cederberg rock at Bliss and Stars off-grid retreat

Cederberg rock

Villa

Built from Cederberg rock, set closest to the river. A separate bedroom, its own lounge, and a large outdoor space that is yours alone. The most private of the three.

4 DAYS

6 DAYS

7 DAYS

Solo

R28,200

R32,000

R39,500

Double

R40,800

R45,000

R56,400

Includes: Accommodation, all meals, practices and activities

Reserve My place

A 50% deposit confirms your place. You can pay upfront or in instalments. 

If you are not committed to making a reservation yet and have some questions, contact us here.